Psalm of Flowerbed Compliments
At first, East Anglia appears
flat and then one discovers there are tiny ripples in it, that away from the A-
& B-roads, away from the streetlamps & post offices, the terrain can undulate
with the best of them. It was an accidental standstill at Witham that drove us
off the A12 into the mercy of the sat-nav’s unquestioned diversion. It was a
warm Friday afternoon in October as the school rush hour inclined into a
gorgeous bright gold and all the trees and all the houses stark against the sky
and the smell of summer rotting and our car sped over the hills northeast
towards my parents’ home. I had lowered the window to steady my hungover stomach.
The cat was in her carrier on my lap, and I said that she was probably getting carsick.
‘It’s better than being trainsick!’ said my mother, defensively. ‘I wasn’t
having a go at your driving… just that these roads are bumpy and all over the
place.’ No sooner had I said this than the cat began to shuffle before emptying
her undigested food into the carrier. If it smelled foul to me, then to her it
was even worse. We stopped to clean everything. When the car was in a jam,
there were rocks mere inches from my nose; the rocks had grown moss and could
not be moved; the gravel driveways seemed to buzz in the fading day. The engine
cut off. There was sound everywhere else. A few strands of spiderweb could be
seen to blow tremulously atop a breeze and then the lights changed.
The next day I took myself
for a walk; incidentally it was at the same time in the afternoon as our
diverted drive, as if it were a call to outside that really chimed with me. It
was all very different, in weather and in spirit, but I was buoyed by the
absence of a hangover. In the evening there was to be a party – the cause of my
visit to the coast – and I felt stuffy, believing that a course along the
seafront would awaken some vigour in me and my blurry-edged bones. The pavement
had that perpetual sheen of autumn. I stopped at the boundary of a vacant house
and put my fingers through the fence as I peered in. The neighbours came out and
looked at me, so I moved along without saying anything. It was the route I took
every day during lockdown and so each step was laden with the kind of memory,
weight and resignation that burdens a fragile mind. A mile or so in, my mother
called me—‘Do you want picking up?’ I asked her why. ‘It’s pissing down.’ I told
her I was fine, that there was no such piss. I was in the backstreets by then
and found the old cornershop and went in to buy a cherryflavoured soft drink.
When I came out the rain was falling hard but I quite enjoyed it. As I inhaled,
so the rain came into my mouth. It was deathly quiet out and I walked a mile more
before the rain became overwhelming. There was no one else about. Even by offseason
standards, it was quiet. The wind lashed rain at my face, into my eyes. It was
just me next to the sea and over it a darkness of cloud bruised with the weight
of its rain. It got so that I could not see through the water than ran down my
face. Eventually I cowered beneath a pine overhanging the pavement. ‘Yeah, it’s
pissing down now… Can I get a lift, please?’ Clothes stuck to me. I kept myself
elevated off the seats. There was a little bit of breathlessness upon my chest
as mother made talk with me and we went back around the quiet streets. She laughed
at me, tremendously funny! I wiped my wet brow onto the back of my wet arms.
The eighteenth birthday party
was being held on the very edge of town in an old hall. Tight wooden floors
lost their varnish and the walls were thick with paint, a musty smell
throughout that sings every British soul who left school long ago. The ceiling was
tiled, fluorescent tubing installed diagonally, a silvery plastic HAPPY
BIRTHDAY balloon horizontal, its belly up, an immobile fan, all fixtures
and furnishings flickering in the DJ’s rig, lights all colours but natural.
Steadily the hall became busier with family and friends and old acquaintances
and strangers until the music boomed. It was a ceremony. After dinner – which was
served to a long procession from big platters above tiny candles, full of goat
bones, slaw, chicken flesh, rice, spice, heavenly – then there were more frivolities.
Folk gathered on the dancefloor into a huge swaying mass, synchronised and
rogue, until Candy came on and they shifted in unison. I watched and
they watched me back on the thirteenth bar. In amongst them was my niece and I
watched her. There was smiling on my face like a fanfare. She was so perfect
and she is so perfect. I adored her when she was an infant, then she aged some
and I fell out, but now I see her growing alongside the coarseness of existence
and I love her so much. She could not dance; that is, she danced clumsily and
fully conscious, measuring herself constantly against the more fluid and rhythmic
movements of her mother. At times, when I knew she was not paying me any mind,
I chuckled to myself, but I wished to say—‘It is because of love, only love,
and I do not want you to lose that to life.’ She was a sixteenth behind
everyone and it was sweet. After that, Jerusalema came on and she was
just as lagging. My eyes began to water. In the car back – and only in the car
back – I said to others, in the warm vents and steamed windows, that she was so
wonderful, just so wonderful.
The next day I asked my
mother whether she would take me to the garden centre and I would cook everybody
dinner when we got back, and it so happened that she wanted to visit the garden
centre, as some might enjoy clothes shopping, and it was a starkly beautiful
day, autumnally blue and orange in the distance where October skies wilted on
the muddy shades of crisp cold land. Garden centres on a Sunday are a rare pleasure.
She talked me through all the different plants, as I wanted some for my
balcony, and her mother was a big fan of plants, with greener fingers. I could
feel the cobalt air underneath my clothes, where my body tried to warm it. My senses
felt the stalks and leaves. There were many old people in the café, eating and
the stench of it; there were mothers & daughters; there were lovers &
in-laws; there was colour and there was still. When we got back, I emptied my
old boxes into the brown bin and hosed them down. Water ran cold. ‘You sure you
don’t mind cooking us dinner? Thought you might like someone else to cook for
you for a change.’ I told her it would be my pleasure, but first of all I would
pot my plants; there was time. On a table at the end of their garden, I potted
the seven plants I had bought into two boxes and the thyme perfuming my
activity like an aura. On the grass was the carcass of a bird, barely anything
left, subtracted to bones. My hands grew numb with the soil and hosewater and
the stiff breeze, the turning dusk. I was happy with my hands; I looked at them
and beamed; they were covered in soil and they smelt with it; my fingernails turned
dark; I quite liked my hands in the soil that clung to them. How could
something so simple make me feel like a different person living a different
life? Not far away was the sound of neighbours putting together Sunday lunch.
Giggling. I swept loose soil off the patio table into my palm. First, I
arranged the plants in their pot before the box and then I put them in, soil
surrounding. The leaves were kept safe, elevated out the way of work, dusted
off afterwards. I watered everything down. When I was done, I invited my mother
to comment, and my father joined her. Few things make a Sunday as much as
flowerbed compliments. Eventually all the suds rushed the soil off my fingers
and my mother asked me if she could help to chop garlic or peel the carrots.
Two hours later, once everyone was a bit merrier, I served dinner to the table
as the boxes sheltered beneath the eaves, out of the rain.